AS , this is something I understand in my sitch , I cannot blame her really to seek solace and passion when I had enforced a S that she didn’t want and made little effort to reconnect with her . I guess when I found out about OM I realised that I had lost her. I don’t think people do things without a reason mostly. It’s just the lbh fog seems to be the thickest . Us men really need to learn R skills