From my observations here on the boards, talking rarely helps the LBS.


My understanding is she fired you as her husband. Has she begged you to forgive her?


Everything is counter-intuitive.

She is testing you. Woman continually test their men. Pass the test.


Originally Posted by JB42
What is the purpose of cancelling last minute?
The real questions is what is the purpose of this talk?


Why does she need to talk to you so bad?

Why is it so urgent?

Why do you need to hear what she has to say?

Remember that we are giving you general guidelines based on other peoples experiences and results. You know your W better than anyone else on this planet. The best thing you can do is get as many options as possible and make a choice and live with the consequences of that choice.


Evaluate all the pro's and con's of all the options.





I believe everything is fair in love and war. Your goal is to seduce your woman back. She has to feel like she has lost you. Has she had that feeling?


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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