AS, I agree. I thought we were, her remorse has been deep and continuous. She has given me access to everything including her money to manage.

I thought we were and that's why I was wondering can piecing occur until she has gone through the full 100% withdrawal. Yes i agree in this day in age you can go very covert.

Her whole attitude has changed about me and us but as you know we can never get inside someones head to know what is exactly going on.

I still have 180s in effect and still do GAL activities but when she was giving so much I felt I needed to give back...it was feeling more genuine.

That was my question, pull back? let it play its course? cover my ars? How hard do I DB at this point. W has been with me every night for the last month and a half, is this the withdrawal stage for her?


H-50
W-48
T-19
M -18
S23, S14
BD - 5/9/2018
OM discovered 5/10/2018

In house sep - 8/18/2018
Rope drop 2/15/2019
R'ing since 3/15/2019