Uncertain of What I Have (Thread 7)

[Bo562]

I wouldn't worry about them though, as long as both of you love and support them they will get through this just fine.

I hope so. I’ll do my best—just have to let W do her part, and what she does is not up to me.

Certainly it's not optimal but all you can do is make the best of whatever time you do have with them. I learned to cram 2 weeks worth of time in with them every other week. I changed my hours at work so that I was home when they got home from school at 4 instead of getting home at 7. I spent more time with them and did all my house chores on the weeks I didn't have them. 2 of the 3 are moved out now but looking back I am content that it all worked out just fine.

I tend to pride myself on making the best of bad situations. Looks like this will be no different.

I have given thought to what this will look like in the event everything goes through. That I’ll kill it on grading / prepping / cleaning / whatever when I don’t have them, so I can be fully present to them.

Summers, as well as the various breaks / off-days throughout the year will be interesting.

And it will for you too because you are a great dad and an awesome man.

Some days I don’t feel like it, but I appreciate the props and the confidence boost. Thank you.