How, and more importantly why, are you reading her texts? You've already verified she's unfaithful. Any reason to subject yourself to this? I think it's probably bleeding over into other parts of your life. I hope you change your focus onto your life, work, kids.
Exactly what I was going to say. Curtis, you know the situation. Quit snooping. Leave her to the mess she's making and focus on you. She's straight out of a Girls Gone Wild movie. It's not going to change anytime soon, she has to fall and fall hard.
O & AS, regarding the how, let’s just say there are breadcrumbs out there in the cloud that provide an occasional snippet. I do not have full access and frankly couldn’t handle it based on the bits I’ve seen.
Regarding the why, I would say curiosity and trying to gain insight and prepare for what might be coming. Also, perhaps my form of temp checking to peak into whether WW is increasing or decreasing.
I’ve seen enough now to know she is all in on GGW. It is unhealthy to continue subjecting myself to this type of information. You’re right that the snooping doesn’t help. I’m going to piggyback on her separation move with committing to stop monitoring her proclivities. Out of sight, out of mind.
Me:41 W:39 S:9 D:6 T:20 M:16 PA:8/22/18, BD:11/6/18 PA discovery & IHS:12/3/18, W moves:4/2/19 R’ville:9/27/19, I give D docs:3/1/20 W home:4/5/20 (due to CV-19), W NC w/OM:4/13/20 6/1/20
