Well, it seems like she really wants to talk - she asked me again last night and this morning. I've agreed to having a family dinner at her place later this week with the intent that we talk privately afterwords. She wanted to do it at my place, but I moved it to hers. I'd rather have the option to eject myself from the situation if necessary.
Checklist of things to do: Have no expectations Listen Validate if necessary Do not react/be impulsive Give myself time to formulate a response Have an escape plan
I'm not going to lie, there is a level of anxiety/nervousness present, mostly because I don't know what she is going to say - I really hate being ambushed like this. I'll deal with the nervousness before I go, but am I missing anything?
