TH, I think LH's point is that 2 weekends doesn't improvement make. When will you know she is done with the A and really ready to come back to the MR? When you see consistent behavior over a long period of time.
And her telling you things like you told us in: "We had a talk last night and she questioned my motifs, whether she could trust me and told me she felt I was stopping her from seeing her friends .
Of course I am keeping an eye to make sure and explained that I was hurt emotionally, but if she didn’t sleep with oms then I was happy for her to socialise how she wants . She told me she felt it wasn’t right that I had this stipulation!!! "
is not consistent behavior!! No WAW/WW that has shown improvement still says things like this.
So trust but verify. Continue working on yourself. Do not reacttach based on her initiating sex twice. WWs are master manipulators.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
