Quick update The last 2 weeks have been interesting. We have spent the last 2 weekends together and there has been no physical contact with OM.I cannot be sure of other means but she did hang up on him when he rang the first weekend. We ml twice the last weekend instigated by her . Been a bit of spew but nothing I couldn’t handle .
We had a talk last night and she questioned my motifs, whether she could trust me and told me she felt I was stopping her from seeing her friends .
Of course I am keeping an eye to make sure and explained that I was hurt emotionally, but if she didn’t sleep with oms then I was happy for her to socialise how she wants . She told me she felt it wasn’t right that I had this stipulation!!!
I have been having trouble sleeping and eating still and she has noticed. Even though things have improved sitch wise I am still struggling
I need to not smother her and give her a break , which will be easier as she is going away with Sd and Sd friend for 10 days to visit her parents. This will give me some time to regroup and get the focus back .
When I am with her everything is fine , I can sleep and eat , without her .....
