I get that Adam, one of the hardest things about S and D is losing your W AND losing your kids for half the time. I wouldn't worry about them though, as long as both of you love and support them they will get through this just fine. Certainly it's not optimal but all you can do is make the best of whatever time you do have with them. I learned to cram 2 weeks worth of time in with them every other week. I changed my hours at work so that I was home when they got home from school at 4 instead of getting home at 7. I spent more time with them and did all my house chores on the weeks I didn't have them. 2 of the 3 are moved out now but looking back I am content that it all worked out just fine. And it will for you too because you are a great dad and an awesome man.