Continue with the L Don't try to Divorce on your own and stopping the process will only prolong whatever she is doing and throw everything off track-
I don't think this process of D would throw them into reality for long-because the inner work is not done She may be getting a glimpse of her dim future or maybe her L has told her of some possible outcomes that seem displeasing to her-
I think she could pretend to want to Reconcile to stop process and buy time- but I don't think she is done with OM or MLC -she is scared and doesn't like the projected outcome-
Also, I have a friend who Divorced without an attorney They agreed and did it all with whatever papers he wrote up she believed her XH and she lost absolutely everything and once it was all signed and done she had little chance of getting anything
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow