Ws phone was left out last night and I looked, first time in a while. Saw deleted email from 3/13 to OM about counting the days...which referred to an email a few months back I think about days until either his kid or her kid was 18.
My first reactions were disgust, anger, all the usual. That quickly passed and those feelings do not overwhelm me like they did.
What is my next step? Is this still normal that she has contacted OM a month after my BD to her? Is it part of the withdrawal process Sandi, Neffer?
She mentioned in the last few weeks something about a blocked message from him on her phone...was that a smoke screen?
Do I pull back from any R efforts that she has made? Is it all BS?
My next steps are to be very careful protecting myself and kids financially. I won't go back to the hysteria that was our house for the first 7-8 months. Just not sure how this works out.
H-50 W-48 T-19 M -18 S23, S14 BD - 5/9/2018 OM discovered 5/10/2018
In house sep - 8/18/2018 Rope drop 2/15/2019 R'ing since 3/15/2019
