Guys what are the DB principles in bullet points? I haven't picked up DR or DB in over 6 months, and tried to just cherry pick principles out of the books just recently without clear indications of what the principles are. I'm going to have a hard time deciphering them. Nothing has changed in over 6 months. If anything going NC or minimal contact has gotten me nothing more than ignored, and nothing but silence, and being ignored. I know everyone here says balance, but balance of doing what exactly?
The only thing that I've changed on my part is that I stopped complaining, I've tried to take on more responsibility, being more thoughtful, I've validated a little bit, I've tried to remain positive in all interactions and to try and remain engaging and present, but it's like I've been "gray rocked" by W if anyone is familiar with the term. Basically I'm talking to a wall. I could probably get more of a response from a head of cabbage. I really don't see how NC can benefit anyone, unless they are in a WW sich. I barely have time to GAL still, but do where it doesn't affect my responsibilities.
I still feel the need to do something more positive and attractive in my interactions. Time, presence, balance, and giving space is not currently working in my favor. PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME!!! THE SILENCE IS KILLING ME!!! I want to change at least this Dynamic and I need to know what to do.
