curtis those text messages sound brutal.
glad that you are making it roll off your back.
gives me a glimpse of what i can expect my WW did as well. I never got a chance to see any. she guarded that phone with her life. but i walked in on her once when she was having phone sex with an OM !!! She admitted it.

In my wife's depression i made the mistake of signing her up at a gym per the psychologist recommendation.
i paid for both (IC and gym memnership) for 2 years.
The gym was my waterloo. She had every guy hitting on her. At the time I thought she was the faithful beautiful soul I had married. But she went WW within weeks. Per the disconveries I am making now, and her recent confessions to me.
I wish I had never signed her up.

Our lawyer appointment is tomorrow to start paperwork on D so we are on similar timelines.

I too will be entering new uncharted territory.

Last edited by gzabetas; 04/03/19 04:43 AM.

B.D in December 2018
Physical Affairs discovered in April 2019
Divorced May 2019
H (me) 49
W (her) 29