W:"H bla bla lets meet to talk bla bla" H:"I have a lot going on this week. If it is urgent, send me an email and I will read it when I get a chance" W:"Bla bla bla better in person bla bla bla" H:"I will have to check my schedule but I think I may have some time free next Tuesday"
Then get the meeting to a neutral public place. Give her 15-20 minutes. You have something important to do afterwards. End the meeting first.
This will all be about listening. Some of your responses:
"I am not sure how I feel about that" "I will have to think about that" "I am afraid it is not that easy anymore"
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712