...upon our return from a 3 week trip from SE Asia, she did a 180 on me, saying she's unhappy, not in-love, doesn't know herself anymore and wants to find herself, etc. Of course all the blame of her unhappiness is pointed at me, bringing up stuff I did 15-17 yrs ago (no infidelity). I also feel that she did have a poor upbringing. I witnessed it myself. Her dad is a heavy drinker in the past, all he does after work is drink with his buddies, doesn't spend time with her mom. I figured he's been like this since my W and her siblings were young. He'd work and just drink, doesn't spend time with the family. I feel like they were neglected hence the poor coping skills especially going through this hormonal changes.
