So what can I do to encourage the EA to end? I know I have no control over it or what he does, but are there things that other have said or done to make it end?
Work on become the best, most attractive YOU you can.
Remember, timing is key. Most do things at the wrong time and the wrong order. Best you can do is read as much as you can. Use DR as a launch pad for your personal growth during this most difficult sitch. I was consuming 2-3 self help books a week.