Loved reading your update, B! Glad you guys are hitting it off.
I know you shouldn't find happiness and self-value in someone else, but I truly believe my own Ms. Bumble has helped me focus on something positive (communicating with her) instead of constantly dwelling on the past and my failed M with ExW. It's like a breath of fresh air!
M: 34 W:34 D:7 D:6 S:3
M: 9.5 years T: 12
OM found & BD (by me): 9/19/18 IHS begins W informs me she's moving out: 11/28/18 W files: 12/21/18 D Final: 2/25/19