I am all about 50/50 parenting. Both parents should be equally involved in the children's lives.
H"W, this is not working for me. To reduce confusion, I think it is best that we implement this parenting plan that gives us equal time with the children each week. I believe we should impliment it right now unless you want to propose a different split. Please look it over and let me know what you decide."
Make it look official, like it was drawn up by a lawyer.
Agree. I deal with contracts and such all the time, so making it official won't be a problem. Unfortunate that it's come to this.
M 44, W 32 T 10, M 8 D 2 Oct '18: Fantasy affair with OW1 (yes, W) Feb '19: Inseparable from new lesbian BFF Still live together but a lot of tension