MLC? Confused what to do (Part 3)

[SteveLW]

Anthony, why are you writing up dissolution paperwork? Do you want a D?

I am firm believer that one of the biggest DBing principles is to NOT DO THE DIRTY WORK FOR THE WAS. She was dissolution, then she can do the paperwork and hand it to you.

You working on the paperwork does two things. It lets her off the hook. And it keeps you focused on something you shouldn't be focused on. At all.

And don't fall into the "I am showing her I won't stand in the way by doing the paperwork" trap. There are plenty of ways you can show her that without you doing her dirty work for her.

If you want dissolution, then by all means, be the one to do the work. Otherwise, don't help her leave you.