Anthony, sounds like you are handling communications quite well. That email she sent, I would just completely disregard it. She is simply throwing you a bone to soften you up during the dissolution negotiations. It is very common for WAS's to do this during S and D to try and get their way. It's far too soon for her to have had a real change of heart. I like Sandi's idea of a very brief response, something like "message received".
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I just told her I got the email and I didn’t know what to say and left it at that.
That's fine, and don't bring it up again. If she does then remind her that she's still pushing to work out dissolution, so you don't think it would be appropriate to discuss reconciling at the same time as working on dissolution (I mean good grief, the irony!)
