I wrote up more dissolution paperwork today and handed it to her. She said she still needs to look at it. I am just providing the stuff she mentioned in our conversation to her. Showing her I am not getting in the way. I believe she wants to have future conversations like friends would have. I am still doing my avoidance when she is here. She only saw the kids for two hours total today. Maybe a couple hours yesterday too. She mentioned they are just doing their thing and not wanting to hang with her.
I just asked if that meant she was leaving. She said yes and came back to say goodnight. J have been keeping busy doing home improvement projects and doing my workouts. Continuing to focus kn me and the kids. Not letting her moods impact me. I am not her friend or have any relationship with her. I view her as a coparent and nothing more. If she wants to have conversations of life or relationship, that would be reserved when my non negotiable terms are met which are no more OM and no more BFF and we are choosing to work on the MR. if she mentions or talks again about the conversation we just had, j will just be standing firm. Good night all. Best of luck in all of your sitch
