Originally Posted by DejaVu6
Sent a “break-up” text to Tinder guy because he keeps sending me texts and is clearly into me. I was as nice as I could be and told him that I think he deserves someone really great but that I know that person isn’t me. I even told him I was seeing someone. So... 24 hours later, he sends me a text that he is having some surgery soon and after he recovers, he would like to date me... as if he hadn’t even read what I sent. I couldn’t believe it. My SD19 says I should just block him on my phone. Luckily he does not know my last name nor where I live.
LMAO this guy is persistent, don't you want a man like that?

Originally Posted by DejaVu6

Listen... all you LBS’s who think you have lost something because your lame ass husband (or wife) decided someone out there offered him/her a better life... LET THEM GO!!!! The sooner you do, the better off you will be. I was DEVASTATED when my H left... DEVASTATED. I never thought I would be here in a million years. But when the dust settles and the fear subsides, it is amazing how clearly you start to see things. You DO NOT need someone else to define you or make you happy. You don’t. You are enough just the way you are. Make yourself happy and let your S go... it will end up being the best and smartest thing you EVER did.


Boom! Love this!


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.