Hamburg and DnJ: I appreciate both of you. As a matter of fact, we do not have any joint accounts at all but do share/pay everything as far our bills are concerned. Although, she did ask that we separate our cellphone bills and car insurance bill lately. Which I don't actually agree but still did. Also, we live with her parents, that's the reason why she has the full courage of kicking me out even if her parents disagree with her decision. As much as I wanna stay, I feel like if I'm putting more pressure if I do stay. I just want to show her that I respect her if she doesn't want me around. I have been talking to my colleague who's an atty. who also went through a divorce but it doesn't involve a MLC.

Yes, I have been focusing on myself and the children lately and I'm just GAL.