So the W came by to get the car, started with me again asking if I'm moving. Around and around, I told her again "we've discussed this, I don't have the money to move right now" she said if she needs to move she will get a storage unit and stay at her friends and leave me to deal with everything. It was basically a round and round convo, I'll move, I'll stay, I'll move, I'll stay. Exhausting... Still not sure what her intentions are, but she said she can't keep bouncing back and forth between here and her friends. Said that I get to live comfortably while she is suffering and I'm causing it. Saying she hates it in the guest room her stuff won't fit in there and it's a mess (she's completely unorganized so ya, her fault) and I get to enjoy the MBR and the whole house, that she has to bounce back and forth from her friends and here and I'm enjoying all this at her expense. I told her that I am not making her do anything and that is your choice you are making, I am not moving out of the MBR. Then she took off again.
M(32) W(30) Together 12yrs Married 2yrs ILYBNILWY 11/23/18 EA Discovered 3/20/19
In House separation 11/26/18 - 11/29/18 & 1/10/19-3/20/19 W Moved out 3/20/19 M Moved out 5/31/19 W Filed for D 3/3/2020