Dealing with a complex MLC and/or Wayward Wife #2

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Sandi,
That is a great question. I’ll have to think about the feelings then vs now. My father was out of control and it was my job to control him at the same time he was also using me to try and help control the overall situation.

I wanting to tell her is 2 fold. Just general control (like LH pointed out) I want her to know she doesn’t have 1 up on me. I have 2 up on her. I think it’s WAS also the underlying feeling that if I could show how extreme the situation was for her character as well as how badly it hurt me, she might have some compassion. I know, nuts!

Ovrrnbw,
I know, she brought it up not me. She needed me to handle the kids (again). Also, I can ALWAYS tell when she is going to see OM. Back when I was snooping I always got this weird feeling when I was around her. I would the prepare to snoop that night. I was right 100% of the time. I’m pretty sure she saw him last night. Don’t think there was sex but I believe he was involved in one way or the other last night. So it was this feeling that caused me to temp check the situation and why I was uncomfortable helping her achieve this.

She’s out next weekend. I’m gone all week. Talk about her coming and going is now in the past.