Your W is all over the place. Mediator, lawyer, hands your the D papers herself. Divorce, kick you out, hug. You have to stop worrying about her.
I know you feel like it's crucial you skip the trip and win her back with some decisive action. But even you said she doesn't see you, so why would this be different?
Take her at her word on this divorce, respect her choice. Then step back while she flounders, work on yourself with 180s and GAL. When she stops flipping we will see what she wants. But dont change plans over her. Be a strong man, the best man you can be. Worry about yourself.
Last edited by Cadet; 03/30/1903:09 PM. Reason: Start a new thread message
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
