WAW says I'm the "perfect husband and partner"

[Jamine]

So, last night was rough, and I'm still feeling confused this morning.

How do I continue to DB?

I'm supposed to go on this Asia trip next week, but my previous time away was THE WRONG thing to do for my marriage. If I back out on this trip, I'm not only missing a trip of a lifetime, but I'll also look weak. When I get back, W will be out of the house, and I doubt she'll be coming around to see me much.

What do I do about this petition for D? I'm not supposed to stand in her way, but I really feel like this is too soon to be signing anything. My state only has a 90 day waiting period once the petition is filed. This is all so overwhelming, and I have no idea how to proceed.