Nice insight Sandi. I'm just amazed on how feelings or emotions, regardless of how old or new, can be so indecisive and conflicting. Your right Sandi. It is a crumb of bait on a hook. Otherwise why would she intentionally mention it?
She is saying "I like what I'm seeing enough to reconsider, but I'm indecisive, and confused now with what I should do with it. I like it but its not enough for me, I need more." "So let's use this dynamic to fill out paperwork, and put it on the backburner for now, in case I change my mind again."