I’ve been wondering about what she would do earlier this week.
I understand that with a WAS / WAW, reason and logic are often thrown out the window, but: I thought about how much sense it would make for her to move out because 1.) she will be going off to her training in September, so why rent a place and pay on it for 3 months when she won’t be there and 2.) there’s no guarantee that she will come back to SoCal, or even to a place near her current field office. She currently works out of Long Beach; there’s always a chance she could go to Westwood (near UCLA), or to somewhere else: Riverside, West Covina, Victorville, or even Ventura, or other places in SoCal. Why would she commit to a place if she doesn’t know where she will be come January?
I also wonder if she’s trying to get me to leave—that I’ll come to reality about our current living sitch and finances, and I’ll be the one to bail first. I doubt either of us can presently afford our current place by ourselves—and she barely outearns me to begin with. Maybe she wants me to make the financial decision and leave first—but I’m not leaving these boys so she can claim abandonment.
