Uncertain of What I Have (Thread 7)

[Twofeet]

Also, she reiterated once again that her worst fear is that I will take the boys from her. I told her I would never dream of doing such a thing.

What she explained to me is that for her, her mind races to the worst-case scenario, and when I’ve tried validating, that causes her mind to race and wander, and she immediately assumes the worst. That I’m hiding something from her. That I have some ‘smoking gun’ or that I’ve done something or have evidence that she’s done something, or that I’ll take the boys.

Projection.... she could be having an A or have done something or believes she has done something that could cause her to lose the kids. It could be irrational fear and a runaway mind.

From my experience and what I have read here some WW act like a wild animal with a foot in a trap. They will attack anything including themselves.