Uncertain of What I Have (Thread 7)

[Twofeet]

Did she actually file yet? Did you respond? Once that happens there is a RO in place on the kids, travel, assets, etc. Despite what she said to you about being a flight risk, if she takes YS and bails isnt that basically kidnapping? Is it that big of deal for her to take YS to visit her family for the first time? If you really suspect she would bail with YS you have potentially bigger problems then her wanting to D. Always good to run things by your L if you are unsure. However, if or when this goes to D, you and W are still bound together by those 2 boys. If you are going for 50/50 custody you will have to work as coparents to raise them in a healthy environment. Despite any harsh feelings for your W (if don't already I am sure at some point you will) you need to put those emotions aside to lead the family and set the example for the boys and W.