I have moved on and I am dating in fact I have a date on Sunday with a WAW. I DB every day but that has nothing to do with my ex and is a way of life. I wouldn't say I hope she comes around I would just say if she did I would have a decision to make. My kids are 14 and 10 are doing great. Minor hiccups in the beginning but none lately. I will be divorced a year next week.

It's easy for her because most likely she checked out years ago and is over it. Plus right now she knows she can have you back at any minute. There is no risk involved. Like Accuray said in the beginning she is going to enjoy her new found freedom.

You are going to have good days and bad days but I promise you how you feel right now won't last forever. One day at a time my friend.