Originally Posted by P_Jam
Her ongoing PA/EA after being confronted and told that she cannot continue while living under this roof, as well as treating me like I"m 'crazy' for snooping and following up to prove she is lieing (feels a little abusive). What is a better term?

This is controlling behavior dude. Look man I am on your side but I think you have control issues. You are also dieing for her to know that you know so she doesn't think she has one up on you. These are things you should be working on with your IC.