Originally Posted by Niall11

Me: I'm going next door now. Thanks for handling bedtime.
W: Sure, you do it all the time.
Me: Right, I do it all the time. So when I don't do it, it's outside the norm. So thanks.
W: I want you to feel free to go do things and have fun. And I want to go out and have fun too without feeling guilty.
Me: You should do whatever you think is best.
W: OK. But you should be free to have fun too.
Me: I appreciate that. For me it's about finding the right balance between doing things outside the house that I enjoy and meeting my responsibilities to D2.


This is just WW garbage. What she said is really: "I want you to find another person so that I can feel good about the other person I'm cheating on you with."

Plenty of people find ways to have fun and still honor their marriage vows. The two aren't mutually exclusive.

Last edited by ovrrnbw; 03/29/19 05:52 PM.
H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

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