Dealing with a complex MLC and/or Wayward Wife #2

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LH,
I just expected a little more 'debate' from you on the anger side of things. Like I said, I do have some anger/feelings that I want to get off my chest. Whether it's the best DB strategy or not. Such as my speech and letting her know more of what I know. I'm bothered by the fact that she can continue to say that "you're not the victim" As if she is. Even if victim is the wrong term - I'm sooo very frustrated that I have to look her in the eyes and listen to this defensiveness and justification.

I was unfaithful too, I'm not better than her. But I am much farther in my recovery and I completely own my mistakes/decisions. Watching her escape all of this without my retort - is extremely frustrating. Even in normal days, but especially when she tries to throw it directly in my face. I have done her wrong, I get that - but she seems to forget that she too has done me wrong. Most recently, which is actually why we are where we are.