I know I"m getting the better end of the deal in regards to house and goods (but not by as much as she thinks) if we really went to court and brought EVERYTHING into community property that would bring her 401K into play (which because of me paying for mostly all 'overhead' is much bigger than mine).
If you know your'e getting a good deal then don't cut off your nose to spite your face.
Originally Posted by P_Jam
That being said; I really don't want to go to court and let the attorneys win all the money either.
You are a very smart man.
Originally Posted by P_Jam
She's interpreting this as me 'punishing' her. Which I admit there is a piece of that. I do not want this move to be easy, I do want her to have to struggle a little.
Don't worry about punishing her. She certainly will struggle without your help.
Originally Posted by P_Jam
But I am getting off easy financially - so I need to focus on not making mountains out of mole hills here.
You are a very smart man.
Originally Posted by P_Jam
"Hey, look! I know i'm the one "moving out" <-- she actually used air quotes with her hands to emphasize sarcasm, but YOU are not the victim here!!"
Your children are the only victims in this breakup.
Originally Posted by P_Jam
I'm definitely a victim of your emotional abuse and blatant disrespect!
