It is great reading your posts. They make me smile too DV.
I think Yorkie is right (isn't she always :)), for you moving on was always about fear. At first, fear of losing him, but after four years of being without him, you had already learned to live without him (you just didn't know it), then fear of losing your children and fear your children would be missing out by not having a nuclear family, and finally, fear of being alone. But you've faced those fears, and like Yorkie said, what you feared is not actually your reality. So good for you. If I ever get to the point that I stand down, then you will be my inspiration.
Yorkie - three days to respond and what a response. Just enough words to make you feel incompetent. What a condescending tw@t. If you wait for Brexit to happen, you could be living in that house for a long time.
