I'm smiling from ear to ear to read your last post and the happiness and contentment we can hear. I know it is said time and time again on here, but time really is your friend. Step back and assess what is really going on. Fear is what makes us desperate and so you have to rationalise that fear. Then nothing they say affects you because you can realise that fear is not your actual reality.
I'm sure it has it's own challenges, but at least he is getting on with things and your path to freedom is basking in the sunlight.
I'm happy to have stopped tip toeing around mine, constantly worrying about what his reaction to something might be. I've prepared the house for sale and so sent a message saying I was contacting the agent to take the photographs. I also told him that I was taking over the mortgage payment. I got a response 3 days later which said he had spoken to the agent about timings of the sale and that perhaps I should do the same. H speak for 'you're wrong'
Of course I'll speak to the agent (everybody's panicking about Brexit) but I did reply that perhaps we didn't have that luxury as the house was a burden. I also suggested that perhaps he would like to just say what he thinks rather than clouding everything in mystery. The joys of divorcing a lawyer. lol.
I am so so happy for you DV. You've been through the ringer and back a few times. We could all tell that you deserved so much more and now you realise it too.
