Through discovery I am hoping to obtain: -Timeline of adultery and proof OM had been around the children from well before divorce was even an issue. -financials. I know of several thousands of dollars used for furniture. There may have been more for hotels and gifts for OM. -texts admitting to possible drug use and OM being around children. This is a violation of court order as of Jan.
This will lead to more favorable custody for me as well as splitting assets (equity in vehicles, disproportionate share of community property, etc). I want the best for my kids as well as my pocketbook.
I cannot imagine trying to settle outside of mediation. It is worth my time to have attorneys go over things with a fine tooth comb. I don't have the time to do it myself.
