Originally Posted by Ready2Change

H:"W, I want to understand what I am signing. Please send me a copy of the docs so I can review them tomorrow"

Been a few days since I’ve posted, been busy with GAL, coaching baseball, and giving W space and distance while home. I’ve had minimal communication with her, mostly small talk here and there and complete avoidance once kids go to sleep.

Here was the response to the doc request:
W: “I don't have a copy!”
W: “I will ask though”
H: No reply

Still haven’t received any docs to review.

New text from W: “Asked the kids and they want to sleep in same room. I found some cheap bunk beds. Wondered if I could go pick it up tonight? Probably will make them most comfortable for now if they can be together.”

I’m really struggling with this, a huge feeling of loss came over me when imagining a future where my kids are not in the same house. The other thing that bothers me is that she is talking to the kids about these arrangements without involving me.


Me:41 W:39 S:9 D:6 T:20 M:16
PA:8/22/18, BD:11/6/18
PA discovery & IHS:12/3/18, W moves:4/2/19
R’ville:9/27/19, I give D docs:3/1/20
W home:4/5/20 (due to CV-19), W NC w/OM:4/13/20 6/1/20