Not Sure Where This Is Going

[ovrrnbw]

Twice since I thought, wrongly, that she was giving me an opening and it turned out badly.

Temp checks, as well call them here. You solidified yourself as a backup plan. Your goal should be to never make that mistake again.

But either her projection or my poor poker face has led her to say that she knows I'm not happy with her late-night activities.

No, it's the fact that she is married and knows this is horribly wrong to be doing what she's doing.

I was willing to face what I did to get us to this point.

And she was willing to use that against you and blame you for what she is doing now. You've made your apologies, leave them where they are.