Everything is counter-intuitive. Everything is fair in love and war.
The firm boundaries ovrrnbw mentioned above work. The firmer and sooner the better. We can help draft up your "script". Let us know.
think about these statements:
"I do not want to be with a man who wants to be with other woman" "I will not share my man with other woman" "I want to be with a man who wants to be only with me"
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712