Not Sure Where This Is Going

[SoTorn]

Sorry that you are dealing with this. It hurts. You have a WW on your hands. This is a very difficult situation to desl with. If you want to try and stick around and make it work, follow DB to a T. Its time to focus on yourself. Your M is over and is just a piece of paper.

Use this gift of time to be the best version of yourself that you can be. Time to be superdad and stay that way. There is a huge chance you may end up D, and if you truly dont want that then stop pushing and pursuing. My WW acted the exact same way. Only she full embraced her NPD, started a PA with her boss whos 20 years older and showed zero remorse.

We just filed for D on Monday. I have accepted my M is completely over. However I have also accepted that I deserve so much better.

We all deserve a spouse that holds true to their vows. We all deserve love and happiness. Just know, that there are nillions of other women out there and that there is one who would treat you like an absolute king like you deserve.

Good luck. Keep posting. Get together a short term goal list for how you want to improve your life and make yourself happy. Stop making decisions based on how it affects your M and WW. Everything you do moving forward is for you and your child.