Attracting the WW back ?

[gzabetas]

Very good analogy Ready2Change.
I have read about the cat analogy before here in this forum. Not chasing, and letting her come to you.

As a follow-up on my case on anyone who may be reading my thread I will add this.

I called her IC. As I had mentioned on this thread earlier, I had found artifacts of witchcraft, and brought this to his attention. Will my kid be safe if we separate and she has her days with him.

Also, her IC was also mine and he knew both of us. When I had asked him last time I saw him he told me to pursue my wife as there was still hope.
I got called in to my son's preschool psychologist and got told to let me life walk away and give her the divorce.
I told her my IC said to continue reconnection efforts. She told me that doesnt make sense, because he had told my wife to leave me, she said.
So I mentioned this to our IC as well.
Of course he confirmed what we are all thinking. She lied. Once again. To everyone, about anything.

So his diagnosis, on all these issues, (and it helps those who wonder why our wives dont communicate well and dont empathize with us, seeng things a little bit from our POV, ) is IMMATURITY.

She is immature he told me. Now this sounds trivial I know. No biggie. And yet it is.
Its nothing complex as BPD as I thought or psychosis. Google emotional immaturity in our spouse and I am sure most of what we have complained about here is on that list.
Of course there next relationship will suffer. They cant have relationships if they dont communicate. period,