I like the way the church has a class opening that seems interesting to you
That is a good sign of doors opening for you-

You are right on with moving forward and taking good care of you
As time passes, we let go
it takes 18 months to 2 years to grieve a loss this big-

It doesn't surprise me he texted you with his sudden illness,
the Mlcer seems to have bad luck anyway-I think because they run and live outside the will of God


You have good intentions and its normal to want to help the man we loved-
as time moves on , your focus will shift- to letting go
We learn as we go- and if you felt like you did too much you can adjust your response next time-
You can keep your responses simple
"sorry to hear" or "feel better"

The Mlcer will have to navigate their new life just as we do-and learn to live without the support of a good spouse-


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow