You know my XW has her moments. She will send me pictures of the kids and what they are doing, will still ask me for some advice but I will say she has not done what LH just wrote about telling me to have a safe trip.
I think what they all have in common is that the LBS had completely moved on with their life when the one that left came sniffing back around.
You can only control your side of the fence. I thought I was a DBing prodigy and did many things right than wrong however my XW has never shown an interest in returning. If she thought about it the thoughts were fleeting.
Really for it to happen the alignment has to be almost perfect.
