Well we just started talking so I obviously don't know the story yet just that she checked out years ago and is no longer putting everyone's happiness before her own.
I do respect that fact that she said she waited mainly because of her daughter. I think I will pursue it further because she has many of the same interests that I have and is financially independent.
If I find out she was wayward then I will pull the plug.
she checked out years ago and is no longer putting everyone's happiness before her own.
I do respect that fact that she said she waited mainly because of her daughter.
Fair warning - this is what my WAH probably said. He only made it to the middle of our youngest son's senior year in high school though (seriously??? He couldn't have waited another 5 months?). And now he's putting his happiness ahead of everyone else's - that means leaving ME to deal with all the problems our young adult children have (and they have many) while he enjoys his "new" life with his child bride. He's waltzing around pretending he's 30 while our kids all come to me with their serious problems because they know their narcissistic father cannot be counted on for emotional support.
Now, I could be wrong - she could just be a long-suffering wife of some terrible guy who stuck it out for her kid - BUT - I'd sure be on the lookout for red flags.
she checked out years ago and is no longer putting everyone's happiness before her own.
I do respect that fact that she said she waited mainly because of her daughter.
Fair warning - this is what my WAH probably said. He only made it to the middle of our youngest son's senior year in high school though (seriously??? He couldn't have waited another 5 months?). And now he's putting his happiness ahead of everyone else's - that means leaving ME to deal with all the problems our young adult children have (and they have many) while he enjoys his "new" life with his child bride. He's waltzing around pretending he's 30 while our kids all come to me with their serious problems because they know their narcissistic father cannot be counted on for emotional support.
Now, I could be wrong - she could just be a long-suffering wife of some terrible guy who stuck it out for her kid - BUT - I'd sure be on the lookout for red flags.
It's pretty much what my XH said too. I believe his exact words were "I'm tired of always eating $h!t sandwiches so that everyone else can have steak." Then he proceeded to pack his crap and move 1600 miles away from the only home he'd ever known (he'd lived in the same city for his entire life prior to running off with his skank) and disconnect from all his friends and family. Then wanted to whine to me later about how hard it was. F you and the horse you rode in on, dude!
I'd be very leery of anyone who uses that putting everyone else's happiness before theirs line regardless of what her tatas look like.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
Anybody seen Shrill yet, with Aidy Bryant from SNL? One character tells her - "you've got the big a$$ and the big boobs so you get to tell him what's going to happen". I'm thinking of adopting that as my new mantra!
Anybody seen Shrill yet, with Aidy Bryant from SNL? One character tells her - "you've got the big a$$ and the big boobs so you get to tell him what's going to happen". I'm thinking of adopting that as my new mantra!
I was an agri major in college, which was, at the time, a fairly male-dominated area of study. The year that I graduated, I was the only female ag graduate from my department (there were a handful of others from other fields of ag, but I was the only one from ag education). Female high school agriculture teachers were still relatively few and far between. My male counterparts, many of whom I considered good friends, and I would often go to interviews together, as there were fewer openings than there were graduates and many of us would be scheduled back to back, so particularly if we had to travel a couple of hours from campus, it just made sense to ride together. Some schools would even accommodate us by showing us around and introducing us to people together, then doing the separate individual interviews, so it worked nicely. Anyway, I cannot even begin to tell you the number of times that the men would make comments to me on the drive to the interview about how all I had to do was unbutton my blouse and drop my pencil and bend over to pick it up and it would be all said and done because I had big tits (no, they didn't come out and actually say I had big tits, just implied it but that is obviously what they were getting at). Though I was CONSISTENTLY at the top of my class and consistently out-interviewed the guys (I was told this by several administrators and college professors), the guys actually thought that what was going to earn me a job was showing off big tits rather than showing off my big brain or my presentation skills or my vast knowledge of horticulture and animal science, along with my ability to weld.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
Yeh, dudes are awful. Any man who thinks that a woman with big tatas is going to outshine them just because she has big tatas is welcome to grow out some man boobs.
big brain or my presentation skills or my vast knowledge of horticulture and animal science, along with my ability to weld.
It's a good thing you've got Sparky and I've got B because you are sounding like my perfect woman Dawn! I'm still trying to hunt you down just in case things don't work out for us separately Being able to weld clinches it. I'm horrible at that.
My ex had ginormous naturals. She was certainly popular when working for the stock exchange. She had about 2/3 of them taken off to ease back pain and the rash she had under them. Which she passed on to me
And she was disappointed that I was never really a boob guy - it's all about the sparkle in their eyes when they smile for me.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
Being able to weld clinches it. I'm horrible at that.