BluWave- Thank you for sharing your story and imparting so much advice and wisdom here. I appreciate it enormously.
I wonder if you would be willing to talk about how the separation affected your children? What were their struggles? What helped at the time?
There seems to be a lot of information here about how LBS spouses deal with everything but so little information about how the kids deal. I know that I will get through this but the effects on my children of my husband breaking up our family cause me the most stress of all. My kids are young, 7 and 9, and their father is like their personal superhero. I know that everyone says that the kids get through it if you are strong but I am looking for a bit more of the nitty gritty than that. If you are willing to share, of course.
