Did you tell your FF about the sitch? Just a question, is she just a platonic friend? Someone you see as a sister or a potential R if your MR ends?
If things go to D those 3 months without W may be stressful for you. However, it's going to be an awesome time for bonding with you and the boys.
H(37) W(35) D8, D5, S3 T20, M13 BD 8/31/18 EA Discovered 9/13/18 Mediation 10/3/18 W files for D 10/12/18 W moves out 11/10/18 EA confirmed 12/25/18 D Final 1/10/19