Originally Posted by LH19
To bring this thread back. This weekend I started talking to this girl on Match and she came out and said she’s a WAW and she had wanted out for 5 years but waited for her daughter to graduate from school. Her words “ I usually don’t put my happiness first but I’m learning”.

Not sure how I feel about dating a self proclaimed WAW.


Well I guess she at least waited until the kids were out of the house. I think unless things have changed my X-SIL will end up doing this to her H. Poor guy probably has no clue.

I wouldn't be a fan of the WAW, and you obviously need to be on high alert for the red flags. Did she WAW cause the H was abusive or an alcoholic or just gave up on life??? Did she WAW because she was being selfish, emotionally regressing and typically symptoms of some of the WAW on here?

If your spidey senses are tingling just eject. Just my 2 cents.


H(37) W(35)
D8, D5, S3
T20, M13
BD 8/31/18
EA Discovered 9/13/18
Mediation 10/3/18
W files for D 10/12/18
W moves out 11/10/18
EA confirmed 12/25/18
D Final 1/10/19